SM 101: A Realistic Introduction

Many folks consider SM 101: A Realistic Introduction to be one of the "bibles" of the SM scene. This 300+ page volume covers almost everything a novice could ask about regarding BDSM. The safety and negotiation sections are through and well worth reading for player of any level. Resources sections include info on finding groups to interact with, glossary of terms, other books to read and much more.

From the back cover:
"Since the early '90s, Jay Wiseman's underground classic 'SM 101: A Realistic Introduction' has taught the fundamentals of safe, exciting SM to tens of thousands of people of all genders and orientations."